✟ Clothed in Compassion: Restoring, Not Condemning

As followers of Christ, we are not called to mimic the world’s harshness, bitterness, or divisiveness. We are called to something higher, something nobler. The Apostle Paul reminds us of our sacred identity when he writes, “Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience” (Colossians 3:12, NLT). These words are not merely an invitation—they are a divine summons to a lifestyle that reflects the heart of our Savior.

Being chosen by God does not elevate us above others; rather, it binds us to a holy responsibility. We are not called to boast in our standing but to serve in humility. Yet in today’s world, it is a grievous truth that many who claim the name of Christ do not walk in the virtues Paul outlines. Instead of mercy, there is meanness. Instead of kindness, cold judgment. Instead of humility, pride. Instead of gentleness, harshness. Instead of patience, condemnation.

Too many wield religion as a sword to wound rather than as a balm to heal. Their actions drive the broken away from the church, when the church ought to be a sanctuary for the weary and a refuge for the fallen. But Paul’s exhortation is clear—we must clothe ourselves not in superiority, but in sanctified compassion.

Our lives, then, must be adorned daily with the spiritual garments of Christ. These are not optional accessories, but essential vestments for anyone who professes faith in Him. Let this verse be a mirror and a map—a reflection of who we are and a direction toward who we are called to be.

Let us take a moment to reflect more deeply on the attire of grace that Paul outlines in verse 12. These are not mere personality traits—they are manifestations of a transformed heart:

• Tenderhearted mercy speaks of a compassionate soul moved by the sufferings of others. It compels us to lift up rather than tear down.
• Kindness and humility walk hand in hand, reminding us that every person is made in the image of God and deserving of dignity—not condescension.
• Gentleness and patience guide us to endure offenses with grace and to correct others without arrogance.

The Apostle Paul calls us to clothe ourselves with these virtues. Much like we dress our physical bodies each morning, we are to clothe our spirits with these divine qualities, presenting ourselves not as judges, but as servants of grace.

Romans 3:23 serves as a sobering reminder: “For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.” If we all fall short, then who among us has the right to sit in judgment over another? We must cast off the garments of pride and self-righteousness, and instead wear the humility of Christ, who washed the feet of His disciples.

Paul continues, “Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others” (Colossians 3:13, NLT). These words are not a suggestion, but a command rooted in the example of our Savior.

The measure of a believer is not how well they speak of grace, but how generously they extend it. Forgiveness is the outflow of a heart touched by divine mercy. To withhold it is to forget what has been done for us on the cross.

I have witnessed individuals leave churches in tears, not because of the convicting power of the Word, but because of the condemning spirit of the congregation. Their faults were magnified, their struggles broadcast, and their hearts left wounded rather than restored. But Paul calls us to make allowance for one another—to recognize that spiritual growth is a process and that we are each on a journey.

Christ's forgiveness was not earned; it was given. And if we have received it so freely, then we are called to give it freely in return.

Paul elevates the conversation in verse 14: “Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.” Love is the ultimate garment, the crowning piece of our spiritual wardrobe. Without it, all other virtues fall apart.

Love does not expose weaknesses—it covers them (1 Peter 4:8). Love does not puff itself up—it humbles itself. Love does not cast out—it draws near.

The Church should be known for its love—not for its legalism. When we look down on those who have stumbled, when we refuse to walk with them toward healing, we defy the very nature of the Gospel.

In John 13:35, Jesus said, “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” Not our eloquent sermons. Not our theological knowledge. Not even our moral record. But our love.

Let us then put on love as the belt that holds all the other garments of grace together, uniting us in harmony rather than dividing us with judgment.

Paul concludes this powerful exhortation with these words: “And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful” (Colossians 3:15, NLT).

Peace does not dwell in a heart consumed with superiority. It cannot coexist with spiritual pride. The peace of Christ rules only in hearts surrendered to His lordship and softened by His love.

We are called to live in peace—not merely coexist, but thrive together as a unified body. And this peace is nurtured by a spirit of thankfulness. When we remember what Christ has done for us, we are moved not to judge others, but to bless them.

Gratitude humbles the soul. It reminds us that every gift we possess—including salvation, wisdom, and righteousness—is from God. And from that wellspring of humility, peace flows like a river, washing away arrogance and replacing it with unity.

There was a time in my life when I had to confront my own tendency to judge. I had forgotten how deeply I once needed grace—how at twelve years old, I encountered the life-changing love of Christ Jesus and was baptized under Reverend Joe Broadway at Eastwood Baptist Church in Gatesville, Texas. That moment shaped my life. And yet, there came seasons when I was tempted to look down on others who were struggling.

But the Lord gently reminded me: “Were it not for My mercy, where would you be?” I have since ministered to many individuals who were ready to walk away from their faith, not because of God’s Word, but because of God’s people. They felt excluded, shamed, judged.

Let us never be the reason someone walks away from the Church. Let us instead be the reason they come back.

Paul’s exhortation in Colossians is echoed in Galatians 6:1 (NLT): “Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path.” Gently. Humbly. With the garments of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

We are not spiritual law enforcement. We are spiritual caregivers. The church is not a courtroom; it is a hospital. Let us tend to the wounded, not interrogate them.

As you go about your week, ask yourself: Am I clothed in mercy, or covered in pride? Am I lifting others up, or tearing them down? Reach out to someone who may be struggling in their faith. Let them know they are not forgotten. Help them rise again in the strength of God’s grace. Be the one who restores, not the one who rejects.

Let us put aside the garments of judgment and adorn ourselves with compassion, humility, forgiveness, and love. For these are the true garments of Christ.

So, I say to you, “May the Lord strengthen your faith and use it for His glory, as you walk humbly in His presence.”

The Importance of Family

In the continuing journey through the four foundational pillars that shape a God-centered life, we come now to the second pillar: the importance of family. Last week, we laid the cornerstone by declaring the essential truth that God must remain the center of all we are and all we do. Today, we turn to the next divine priority—the sacred institution of family, created by God, nurtured in His love, and designed to be the first earthly expression of our faith.

As we begin, let us open our hearts to the conviction and instruction of the Word of God in 1 Timothy 5:8 (ESV). 

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

These words are sobering. They remind us that family is not a casual obligation—it is a spiritual mandate. It is a trust given to us by God that must be guarded, nurtured, and honored.

From the very beginning, family was established by the hand of God. In Genesis 2:24, we read, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

In this sacred moment, the covenant of marriage was instituted, and the foundation for the family was laid. This was not a human invention, but a divine design.

Family is God’s first institution, predating the church and government. It is within the family that love is first learned, discipline first applied, and faith first seen in action. When God is honored in the home, the household becomes a sanctuary of peace and a place where Christ is lifted up.

Family is more than a group of individuals who share a home. It is the first church, the first school, and the first place where the heart is shaped. In Deuteronomy 6:6–7, the Lord commands, “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…” Faith was never intended to be taught only in formal settings. It was meant to be passed from one generation to the next in the rhythms of daily life—through conversation, example, correction, and encouragement.

Parents are charged with the holy task of raising children in the fear and knowledge of the Lord. Grandparents, siblings, and extended family members also play essential roles in modeling Christlike love and service. When the family unit is grounded in Scripture, the home becomes a beacon of light in a dark world.

Yet we must not ignore the reality of our times. In today’s society, the family is under siege. The rise of self-centered living, relentless busyness, and moral confusion has led to widespread brokenness within the home. Fathers and mothers are often absent—not merely in presence, but in spiritual leadership. Children are being discipled by screens and culture rather than by Scripture and godly example.

This breakdown is not accidental. The enemy understands that when the family is fractured, the church and the community are weakened. We must therefore be vigilant in protecting and restoring what God has ordained. We must reject the notion that family is disposable or secondary. It is essential.

How then do we respond? We begin by restoring the family altar. This is not a piece of furniture—it is a way of life. It means making time each day to gather in prayer, read the Word together, and talk openly about the things of God. It means eating meals together, asking for forgiveness when we fall short, and seeking the Lord’s direction in every decision.

It means fathers and mothers praying over their children. It means children honoring their parents. It means turning off the distractions and turning our hearts back toward home. In Colossians 3:13–14, we are reminded to “bear with each other and forgive one another... and over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” Healing begins when humility is embraced and the Spirit of God is invited to reign once again in the home.

As we continue in this series, we will explore two more pillars: simplifying our lives and stewarding our health in order to serve God more fully. But let it be clearly stated—without a God-centered home, simplicity is elusive, and even service can become burdensome. A strong family, built on faith, is essential for living a life that glorifies the Lord in every season.

This week, I invite you to reflect on your role within your family. Whether you are a parent, child, spouse, sibling, or grandparent—ask yourself: *How am I honoring God through my family relationships?

If there is distance, seek reconciliation. If there is silence, start a conversation. If there is weariness, ask God for renewal. Commit to praying together, studying the Word together, and serving one another in love.

God has entrusted you with your family—not by chance, but by divine appointment. Let your home be a place where Christ is known, seen, and praised.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1 (ESV)

Trust the Lord to build, restore, and bless your family as you commit it to Him. He is faithful.

May the Lord strengthen your faith and use it for His glory, as you walk humbly in His presence.

Setting Our Hearts on Things Above

As we step into a new year, we are often encouraged to set goals, make resolutions, and refocus our priorities. These are valuable pursuits, but as believers, our greatest calling is to align our hearts and minds with the eternal perspective Christ offers. In Colossians 3:1-3, the Apostle Paul reminds us that our identity as followers of Christ is rooted not in earthly pursuits but in the realities of heaven. Imagine a hiker navigating with a compass that always points northward; no matter how challenging the terrain, their path is guided by a fixed point. In the same way, Paul calls us to fix our sights on the eternal truths of God’s kingdom. When we live with this focus, we find purpose, peace, and hope that transcends the fleeting concerns of this world. Today, let us embrace the call to set our sights on things above and live each day in the fullness of our new life with Christ.

The journey of faith begins with a profound transformation: being raised to new life with Christ. This is not a mere shift in behavior or attitude but a complete renewal of who we are. Paul emphasizes that our spiritual rebirth is anchored in the resurrection of Jesus, which gives us the power to live differently. Just as Christ rose from the grave, we are raised to walk in newness of life, leaving behind the chains of sin and death. This new life is not defined by earthly measures of success or failure but by the eternal hope and purpose we have in Him. Reflect on this truth—your identity is no longer tied to the world but to Christ, who sits at the right hand of God in glory. Each day is an opportunity to live out this identity, to embody the reality of being made alive in Him. As you consider this calling, ask yourself: How is your life reflecting the transformative power of Christ’s resurrection? Let this be a reminder to live boldly and confidently as one who has been raised to eternal life with Him.

Paul’s exhortation to “think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth” challenges us to shift our focus from the temporary to the eternal. In a world filled with distractions, it is easy to become consumed by daily concerns, ambitions, and struggles. Yet, as believers, we are called to a higher perspective—a mindset shaped by the realities of heaven where Christ reigns in glory. To set our sights on heavenly things is to align our thoughts, desires, and priorities with God’s eternal plan.

Imagine putting on a pair of corrective lenses that suddenly bring a blurred landscape into sharp clarity. In the same way, focusing on heavenly realities reshapes our vision, allowing us to see life from God’s eternal viewpoint. This perspective empowers us to navigate challenges with hope and purpose, knowing that our lives are part of a greater story.

Practically, this means investing in what matters most—time in prayer, immersion in God’s Word, and intentional acts of service that reflect His love. It also requires identifying and laying aside the earthly distractions that pull us away from Christ. Take a moment to evaluate: What occupies your thoughts and shapes your decisions? Are you fixated on the fleeting or fixed on the eternal? As you set your mind on heavenly things, you will find renewed strength and clarity to live out your faith in a world desperate for hope.

“For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God.” With these words, Paul reminds us of the profound truth that our old life—marked by sin, self-centeredness, and worldly pursuits—has been put to death. Through faith in Christ, we have undergone a spiritual transformation, one that calls us to leave behind what is temporary and embrace what is eternal. This death to our old self is not a loss but a gain, for in its place, we find a life that is secure, protected, and hidden with Christ in God.

To be “hidden with Christ” means that our identity and purpose are no longer rooted in the transient values of the world but in the eternal reality of God’s kingdom. It is a place of safety and belonging, where our lives are guarded and guided by His divine plan. This truth provides us with a deep assurance: no matter what challenges we face or how uncertain the future may seem, our lives are anchored in Christ, who is unchanging and eternal.

Living out this reality requires surrender—letting go of the things we once clung to and trusting wholly in Christ. It is a daily decision to embrace the new life He offers and to rest in the knowledge that we are His. Reflect on what you may need to surrender today. Are there habits, fears, or attachments holding you back from fully experiencing the freedom of a life hidden in Christ? As you release these to Him, you will find that your true self, the one made alive in Christ, shines with His glory and grace.

As we reflect on the truths of Colossians 3:1-3, the call to action is clear: align your life with the eternal perspective Christ offers. This begins with intentionality—actively setting spiritual goals that help you grow closer to God and live out your faith in practical ways. The start of a new year is the perfect time to commit to deeper prayer, consistent Bible study, and meaningful service to others.

Living with eternal purpose also means evaluating how you spend your time and energy. Are your decisions shaped by the temporary demands of this world, or are they guided by the eternal values of God’s kingdom? Take time this week to prayerfully assess your priorities. Look for opportunities to reflect Christ’s love in your daily interactions, whether by extending kindness to a neighbor, sharing the gospel with a friend, or giving generously to those in need.

Finally, let the hope and security of your life in Christ inspire you to live boldly for His glory. Remember, your real life is hidden with Him, and nothing in this world can diminish the eternal significance of walking in His ways. As you embrace this perspective, you will not only experience greater peace and purpose but also inspire others to do the same.

This week, I challenge you to take one tangible step toward living with an eternal focus. Whether it’s spending time in God’s Word, reaching out to someone in need, or setting aside a distraction that pulls you away from Christ, let this step be the beginning of a year marked by faithfulness and intentionality. Together, let us live with our sights fixed on the realities of heaven, bringing glory to the One who has raised us to new life.

Mid-Week Message - Childhood Lessons

"Let the word [spoken by] Christ (the Messiah) have its home [in your hearts and minds] and dwell in you in [all its] richness, as you teach and admonish and train one another in all insight and intelligence and wisdom [in spiritual things, and as you sing] psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, making melody to God with [His] grace in your hearts."  Colossians 3:16 (AMPC)

Children have been my life.  I started babysitting in the summers at the age of nine then graduated to babysitting on weekends and nights.  My first job was at a daycare center and I worked in daycare centers all through college and afterward.  Eventually I became a nanny for one family and then two.  

My daughter loves to hear the stories from those days, such as the little boy who could not correctly pronounce Pinocchio so he called him Pickanose.  I have no idea how many times I told her that story but it was a lot.  Children like to hear things over and over.  In my house we read the same two or three books every night for so long that I had most of them memorized!  Movies were watched over and over and songs played continually until Mom and Dad were hearing them in their sleep.  She had a Ronald McDonald tape that she got in a Happy Meal that I found myself singing the songs from while in the shower.  But I wouldn't trade those days for anything.  

There is great comfort in the familiar.  The first songs that we teach our children, such as "Jesus Loves Me", are simple but also easily remembered truths that teach them about the faithfulness of the Lord and the love that He has for everyone.  They like to sing them over and over and that is the beginning of knowledge and wisdom for them.  As they grow we begin to teach them scriptures such as John 3:16.  Because they hear them often, the words are written on their hearts and in their minds where they will dwell forever.  

I sometimes miss the days of childhood.  Things were much simpler when I could just allow the adults to worry about the problems of life and I could enjoy reading and re-reading books and singing the songs I learned in Sunday School.  Memorizing scripture was a challenge that was fun for me and although I had no idea the words would stay with me all my life, in actuality God was inscribing them into my very soul, preparing me for the day when I would need to refer to them in my adult years. 

I am so thankful now for the adults that the Lord placed in my life to teach me the basic truths about His love and steadfastness.  Each time they sang, prayed or recited scripture with me they were helping to engrave God's Word deeper into my mind and heart and teach me about who He is. Because I have that foundation I have hope to turn to on the toughest days. I am also thankful that He used me in so many little lives to do that same thing.  I hope they are thankful too.

As we go through this week, let's see how many of those songs and verses we can remember.  I am pretty sure we will each be surprised by all that comes to mind.  Then, each time we hum the tunes or think of the words, let's say prayers of thanksgiving for those people who invested into our lives.  Because they loved the Lord enough to share with us, we have knowledge and wisdom that is eternal.  God bless you!

Mid-Week Message - Setting Our Hearts On Things Above

"Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.  For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.  When Christ, who is your life,appears, then you also will appear with him in glory."  Colossians 3:1-4 (NIV)

Walmart is a great place to people watch.  One day, I was sitting in the car waiting for my beloved to come out of the store and, as I always do, I was watching the people coming and going from the building.  It was spring break here so there were plenty of mothers with children, several senior citizens, and of course, single individuals.  What I noticed about each of them, without exception, was that their eyes were focusing on their cars, the store, or the basket they were pushing.  Everything that they were looking at was earth level.  

At one point I glanced up and saw some birds soaring overhead, gently gliding on the breeze.  It occurred to me that, unlike the beings below them, they were free.  They weren't tied down by possessions.  They weren't worried about what time it was and where they needed to be in the next hour.  They had no concern about how much money they had or how they were going to provide food and shelter for their families.  They were simply riding the wind.  Some even appeared to be having fun.  

Our lives are encumbered with so much that draws our focus away from the things above.  During this time in history, making a living is just plain hard for so many.  Providing for ourselves is expensive.  Unlike the birds I saw that day, we have responsibilities that must be met.  So how do we do as the scripture says and set our minds on things above and not earthly things?  

The Lord has promised to provide for our needs.  All good things come from Him, therefore, all we have belongs to Him.  When we are able to understand that those earthly items that we treasure are His and not ours, it changes our perspective a bit and we are more able to let go of those things that serve no purpose in our lives.  When we understand that He is our provider then we can look to Him when we have needs arise and trust Him to take care of those needs as He has promised to do and in the way He chooses.  

Our desires for earthly things also need to be addressed.  There is nothing in this world that we can take with us when our Father calls us home.  As my husband says, "we came into this world with nothing and we will leave it with nothing."  When we truly compare what this world can give us to what awaits in Heaven, there is no contest.  In Heaven we will have perfect joy and all that will surround us will be more glorious than we can even imagine.  So, I am asking myself today which I truly want.  

As you go through this week, I ask you to do what I will be doing.  That is, addressing the things, the situations, the responsibilities in my life and examining them to see if they are drawing my focus needlessly away from what God has for me above.  Then, I will be asking Him what needs to be done next.  With all my heart, I wish for God's greatest blessings for each of you. 

Mid-Week Message - New Year New Chance

"Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with one another and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you."  Colossians 3:12-13  (NIV)

Have you ever played the game in which you make up stories about the people in the cars that pass yours?  This was a favorite of mine and some of my friends when we were teens.  We would fantasize elaborate backgrounds and come up with outlandish scenarios as to where the person was going.  Silly?  Yes.  But as I look back on that game now, I realize that it taught me something valuable.  It reminds me that I don't know the details of who any of those people are or what they are living through.  

As an adult, I have made an effort to keep that in mind as I go through daily life.  I am well aware that we all encounter good days and bad.  Each of us struggles with something.  If we only knew the story behind the actions others take, I think we would be much slower to judge and much quicker to extend compassion.  Here are some examples of what I am talking about.

Your child comes home and tells you about a new student in the class.  This child comes in with uncombed hair, wrinkled clothes and sometimes doesn't smell very good.  The other children have already begun name-calling and not including this child in recess.  Concerned about your own child's well-being, you talk to the teacher and find out that the father in this family left and because the mother had no money to pay the rent, she and her three offspring are living in their car.  

On the highway heading to work, you are cut off by a man driving an expensive car.  As anger builds, you conclude that he must think he is better than everyone else and deserves the road for himself.  He takes the same exit as you do and as you reach the stoplight and pull up next to him, you roll down your window so you can tell him he shouldn't drive that way.  He apologizes and explains that he is a single father and was up all night with a very sick child and that if he was late to work his job would be at risk.  Then you notice the emblem on the car and realize it is a company vehicle and that he doesn't own it at all.  

You and a friend see a woman who is wearing a lot of jewelry and costly clothing.  Her hair is perfect, her nails are professionally done and you think she probably lives a life of ease and doesn't have a care in the world.  You make a comment to your friend about her that maybe isn't very nice and it turns out your friend knows the woman's story.  Her outward look belies what her life is really like.  Her husband is rarely home and when he is, he is abusive.  Her one child attempted to commit suicide a while ago and is in a long term treatment facility.  With no one at home, she shops - a lot.  

If we were to do as Jesus would do, how would we handle life differently?  If we could see others the way their Creator sees them, how would that change our hearts?  We may not be able to have those insights, but we can have the understanding that there are probably things going on in their lives that we would be surprised by.  I know there are things in my life that others don't know about.  How about yours?  

We all need to clothe ourselves in the compassion, patience and gentleness that today's verse references.  Any person who crosses our path should be treated respectfully and kindly.  Each interaction is a chance to show God's love and just may change someone's day for the better.  If we can offer that gift, why wouldn't we?  

It is a new year and we have new chances to live our lives for Christ and to make a difference in this world.  I pray we take full advantage of those chances and touch hearts and minds for Him as we do.  God bless! 

Epistle to the Colossians - Chapter 4

In Colossians chapter 4, the apostle Paul encourages the Colossian believers to continue in prayer and to be watchful and thankful (Colossians 4:2, NLT). He also asks for prayer support in his ministry, that God may open doors for the proclamation of the gospel (Colossians 4:3, NLT). Paul urges the believers to conduct themselves wisely toward outsiders, making the most of every opportunity to share the message of Christ (Colossians 4:5, NLT). He sends greetings from his fellow workers and encourages the Colossians to receive the letter from Laodicea and to exchange greetings with the believers in Laodicea (Colossians 4:7-16, NLT). In this closing chapter, Paul emphasizes the importance of prayer, evangelism, and unity among believers. As we study Colossians chapter 4, may we be diligent in prayer, bold in sharing the gospel, and supportive of fellow believers, standing firm in Christ's love and grace.

Epistle to the Colossians - Chapter 3

In Colossians chapter 3, the apostle Paul exhorts the Colossian believers to set their minds on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God (Colossians 3:1-2, NLT). He urges them to put to death their earthly nature, with all its sinful desires, and to clothe themselves with the new self, which reflects Christ's character (Colossians 3:5-10, NLT). Paul emphasizes the importance of love, unity, and forgiveness among believers, as well as gratitude toward God (Colossians 3:12-17, NLT). He provides practical instructions for family and work relationships, encouraging mutual respect and fairness (Colossians 3:18-4:1, NLT). Paul urges the Colossians to devote themselves to prayer and to share the message of Christ boldly (Colossians 4:2-6, NLT). As he concludes the letter, Paul sends greetings from his fellow workers and encourages the Colossian believers to continue striving for Christ (Colossians 4:7-18, NLT). In this chapter, Paul emphasizes the importance of living a Christ-centered life, putting off the old self, and putting on the new self. As we study Colossians chapter 3, may we be transformed by the renewing of our minds, growing in Christlikeness, and demonstrating His love and grace in our relationships and daily living.

Epistle to the Colossians - Chapter 2

In Colossians chapter 2, the apostle Paul addresses the Colossian believers with heartfelt concern (Colossians 2:1, NLT). He warns them against being deceived by persuasive arguments and empty philosophies that are not based on Christ (Colossians 2:4-8, NLT). Paul urges the believers to remain rooted and built up in Christ, firm in their faith (Colossians 2:6-7, NLT). He emphasizes that in Christ, they have been made complete and have received fullness (Colossians 2:9-10, NLT). Paul encourages them to let go of legalistic practices and human traditions, which cannot lead to true spiritual growth (Colossians 2:16-23, NLT). Instead, he urges them to hold fast to Christ, who is the head of all spiritual authorities and powers (Colossians 2:19, NLT). In this chapter, Paul emphasizes the sufficiency of Christ and the dangers of straying from the simplicity of the gospel. As we study Colossians chapter 2, may we be steadfast in our faith in Christ, rooted in His truth, and discerning against deceptive teachings that lead us away from the fullness we have in Him.

Epistle to the Colossians - Chapter 1

In Colossians chapter 1, the apostle Paul, writing to the believers in Colossae, begins with a warm greeting and expressions of thanksgiving for their faith and love (Colossians 1:3-4, NLT). He commends their spiritual growth, which is the result of the gospel's transforming power (Colossians 1:6, NLT). Moving on, Paul passionately prays for the Colossian believers, asking God to grant them knowledge and understanding of His will (Colossians 1:9, NLT). He exalts Jesus Christ as the image of the invisible God, the Creator of all things, and the head of the Church (Colossians 1:15-18, NLT). Paul emphasizes Christ's redemptive work on the cross, through which He reconciled all things to Himself, both in heaven and on earth (Colossians 1:20, NLT). In Christ, believers find true wisdom and knowledge (Colossians 1:28, NLT). Paul shares insights into his ministry, explaining his willingness to suffer for the sake of the Church, striving to make the mystery of Christ known to the Gentiles (Colossians 1:24-27, NLT). In this chapter, Paul lays the foundation for the rest of the letter, highlighting the significance of Christ's preeminence and the transformative power of the gospel. As we study Colossians chapter 1, may we deepen our understanding of Christ's supremacy and the profound impact of His redemptive work in our lives, growing in faith and love through His grace (Colossians 1:22-23, NLT).

Epistle to the Colossians - Background

The book of Colossians holds a special place in the New Testament, being one of the Pauline epistles. Written by the apostle Paul, it was directed to the believers residing in the city of Colossae, situated in Asia Minor (modern-day Turkey). The historical context of Colossae reveals a diverse population, influenced by various cultural and philosophical ideas. Within this setting, the church in Colossae faced challenges posed by false teachings, encompassing a mixture of Jewish legalism, Greek philosophy, and mystical beliefs. Recognizing the confusion and deviation from the true gospel, Paul, during his imprisonment in Rome around AD 60-62, wrote this letter to exhort the believers to stand firm in their faith in Christ and combat the allure of deceptive doctrines. Throughout Colossians, Paul passionately emphasizes the supremacy of Christ, warning against the dangers of legalism and asceticism, and providing practical guidance on living a Christ-centered life. As we delve into this epistle, let us grasp the timeless truths it holds and learn how to apply its teachings in our lives today.

Mid-Week Message - Share God's Love

 "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with one another and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you."  Colossians 3:12-13  (NIV)

Have you ever played the game in which you make up stories about the people in the cars that pass yours?  This was a favorite of mine and some of my friends when we were teens.  We would fantasize elaborate backgrounds and come up with outlandish scenarios as to where the person was going.  Silly?  Yes.  But as I look back on that game now, I realize that it taught me something valuable.  It reminds me that I don't know the details of who any of those people are or what they are living through.  

As an adult, I have made an effort to keep that in mind as I go through daily life.  I am well aware that we all encounter good days and bad.  Each of us struggles with something.  If we only knew the story behind the actions others take, I think we would be much slower to judge and much quicker to extend compassion.  Here are some examples of what I am talking about.

Your child comes home and tells you about a new student in the class.  This child comes in with uncombed hair, wrinkled clothes and sometimes doesn't smell very good.  The other children have already begun name-calling and not including this child in recess.  Concerned about your own child's well-being, you talk to the teacher and find out that the father in this family left and because the mother had no money to pay the rent, she and her three offspring are living in their car.  

On the highway heading to work, you are cut off by a man driving an expensive car.  As anger builds, you conclude that he must think he is better than everyone else and deserves the road for himself.  He takes the same exit as you do and as you reach the stoplight and pull up next to him, you roll down your window so you can tell him he shouldn't drive that way.  He apologizes and explains that he is a single father and was up all night with a very sick child and that if he was late to work his job would be at risk.  Then you notice the emblem on the car and realize it is a company vehicle and that he doesn't own it at all.  

You and a friend see a woman who is wearing a lot of jewelry and costly clothing.  Her hair is perfect, her nails are professionally done and you think she probably lives a life of ease and doesn't have a care in the world.  You make a comment to your friend about her that maybe isn't very nice and it turns out your friend knows the woman's story.  Her outward look belies what her life is really like.  Her husband is rarely home and when he is, he is abusive.  Her one child attempted to commit suicide a while ago and is in a long term treatment facility.  With no one at home, she shops - a lot.  

If we were to do as Jesus would do, how would we handle life differently?  If we could see others the way their Creator sees them, how would that change our hearts?  We may not be able to have those insights, but we can have the understanding that there are probably things going on in their lives that we would be surprised by.  I know there are things in my life that others don't know about.  How about yours?  

We all need to clothe ourselves in the compassion, patience and gentleness that today's verse references.  Any person who crosses our path should be treated respectfully and kindly.  Each interaction is a chance to show God's love and just may change someone's day for the better.  If we can offer that gift, why wouldn't we?  

It will soon be a new year and we have new chances daily to live our lives for Christ and to make a difference in this world.  I pray we take full advantage of those chances and touch hearts and minds for Him as we do.  God bless!

Mid-Week Message - This Moment Matters

 "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."  Colossians 3:17  (NIV)

This could be the last message I ever write.  That is a thought-provoking statement.  The truth is that I have no idea whether next Wednesday will ever arrive for me.  Or even the next hour.  God might call me home or Jesus may return.  Therefore, it is incumbent upon me to make the most of this very moment.  

Christians have read in the Bible, and been taught by our spiritual teachers, that our lives, and even this world, will eventually come to an end.  We witness death each day.  All we have to do is turn on the evening news or open the newspaper to see reports of people dying.  I venture to say that almost all of us have stood at the grave of a loved one.  Today, many woke up with plans on their minds that will never come to fruition.  

My point is that the only time we can count on in life is the moment we are in right now.  Because of that, everything we say and do needs to matter.  This may be the only minute in time that we get to encourage someone.  It may be the only time someone will be able to hear the Gospel.  It may be the last chance we have to soothe an aching heart, show kindness or even to lift our Savior's name in praise while we are on this earth.  

I have been becoming more aware of how often the Lord's name is used in less than appropriate ways.  The predominance of cuss words in our society has grown exponentially.   They even come from the mouths of the very young.  Unfortunately, this type of language has become accepted worldwide and even some who avow to be Christians use them without thinking.  

I wonder.....if the epitaphs on our tombstones were the last words we uttered, what kind of an impact would they leave?   If we wish to leave a legacy of hope that points to an Almighty God who provided a way for all of our sins to be forgiven then we need to choose our words carefully.  

Today's verse tells us that whatever we say or do we should do in the name of Jesus.  This may be our last chance to do that.  So, I encourage each of us to examine our words and deeds to ensure that they are pointing others toward Him.  

May He guide and teach us through His mercy and grace.  God bless.  

Mid-Week Message - Life Stories

"Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with one another and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you."  Colossians 3:12-13  (NIV)

Have you ever played the game in which you make up stories about the people in the cars that pass yours?  This was a favorite of mine and some of my friends when we were teens.  We would fantasize elaborate backgrounds and come up with outlandish scenarios as to where the person was going.  Silly?  Yes.  But as I look back on that game now, I realize that it taught me something valuable.  It reminds me that I don't know the details of who any of those people are or what they are living through.  

As an adult, I have made an effort to keep that in mind as I go through daily life.  I am well aware that we all encounter good days and bad.  Each of us struggles with something.  If we only knew the story behind the actions others take, I think we would be much slower to judge and much quicker to extend compassion.  Here are some examples of what I am talking about.

Your child comes home and tells you about a new student in the class.  This child comes in with uncombed hair, wrinkled clothes and sometimes doesn't smell very good.  The other children have already begun name-calling and not including this child in recess.  Concerned about your own child's well-being, you talk to the teacher and find out that the father in this family left and because the mother had no money to pay the rent, she and her three offspring are living in their car.  

On the highway heading to work, you are cut off by a man driving an expensive car.  As anger builds, you conclude that he must think he is better than everyone else and deserves the road for himself.  He takes the same exit as you do and as you reach the stoplight and pull up next to him, you roll down your window so you can tell him he shouldn't drive that way.  He apologizes and explains that he is a single father and was up all night with a very sick child and that if he was late to work his job would be at risk.  Then you notice the emblem on the car and realize it is a company vehicle and that he doesn't own it at all.  

You and a friend see a woman who is wearing a lot of jewelry and costly clothing.  Her hair is perfect, her nails are professionally done and you think she probably lives a life of ease and doesn't have a care in the world.  You make a comment to your friend about her that maybe isn't very nice and it turns out your friend knows the woman's story.  Her outward look belies what her life is really like.  Her husband is rarely home and when he is, he is abusive.  Her one child attempted to commit suicide a while ago and is in a long term treatment facility.  With no one at home, she shops - a lot.  

If we were to do as Jesus would do, how would we handle life differently?  If we could see others the way their Creator sees them, how would that change our hearts?  We may not be able to have those insights, but we can have the understanding that there are probably things going on in their lives that we would be surprised by.  I know there are things in my life that others don't know about.  How about yours?  

We all need to clothe ourselves in the compassion, patience and gentleness that today's verse references.  Any person who crosses our path should be treated respectfully and kindly.  Each interaction is a chance to show God's love and just may change someone's day for the better.  If we can offer that gift, why wouldn't we?  

It is a new year and we have new chances to live our lives for Christ and to make a difference in this world.  I pray we take full advantage of those chances and touch hearts and minds for Him as we do.  God bless!

Sunday Praise and Worship Message - All That Matters Most

During this pandemic, we have been given the opportunity to spend some time in reflection and thought. With the death toll and the number of people infected continuing to climb daily, we all have a chance to think about our lives and what are the most important things to us. Some have focused on their families while others are focusing on the end of civilization as we know it. It seems that what we see as important runs across a spectrum from giving and sharing with others to selfishness with varying shades of both in the middle. We all have something that seems to preoccupy our thoughts while we shelter in place and hope and pray that this nightmare will end.

I, like some, have spent my time thinking about my own life and how it is being affected by the pandemic. As I thought about the situation, I realized a couple of things. The first is that there are a lot of things outside of my control. As a person who likes being in control of his world, I often find it frustrating to stand idly by as I watch things happen to me. Because of decisions by other people, I am stuck in my home and have to work from it. Although I don’t miss the rush hour traffic, I do, however, miss that separation of home and work. I get up in the morning and get ready to work. Instead of driving, I walk about twenty feet and sit down at a desk in my home to start work. All of my interactions with my colleagues are through chat applications and phone calls.

The second thing I realized is that there are others who are far worse off than me. It doesn’t take a genius or a rocket scientist to figure out that there are others who are suffering more. Each evening I watch the news and hear the stories of families facing eviction or not being able to feed themselves. I see hundreds of people standing in line waiting to receive food from food banks. For some, it is the very first time that they have had to do that.

The third and probably the most important thing is that each of us must remain grounded in our faith. It is so easy to allow this situation to get the better of us. Each day is a struggle just to keep from thinking about the worst. The stock markets are bouncing up and down. Financial analysts predict that a depression is inevitable. With millions of Americans out of work, many are just barely scraping by to feed their families. Each day is another day of just surviving and making it through the day. As things continue to change, we feel completely and utterly powerless and we don’t know what to do or where to turn. 

But, that is where our faith comes in. We cannot see or even pretend to know what the future has to offer or what we can do to make it from one minute to the next. A cardiologist told me a long time ago that the average human heart has about one billion beats in it. Some last longer while some give out earlier due to disease or injury. But, on average, that muscle in your chest that pumps blood throughout your body every moment of every day has one billion beats in it. We don’t know when the beat we now feel will be the last or beginning of the next. We have no assurances or guarantees of the next beat or breath. 

Man is the only species that has an understanding of his mortality. We know that one day we will stop breathing, turn cold and die. It is just something that happens. Like the things that we make, we, too, have expiration dates. For the most part, we don’t concentrate on that moment. However, when we face something like a natural disaster or a pandemic that threatens to end life for most around the world, that’s when we realize that we don’t have a lot of control and that our lives are as fleeting as the morning fog. 

      

When we start to lose control over our lives and are subject to the situation, we begin to turn to other things. Some use drugs or alcohol to numb their minds to the reality that they face. Others use food to medicate their feelings. Each person turns to something that provides a little peace and eases their minds.

But, those things are only a temporary solution. Drugs, alcohol or whatever we use to numb our feelings only provides a short-lived escape. As their effects wear off, we are once again faced with the stark reality of our problems. 

In his letter to the Colossians, Paul, in chapter three when talking to them about living a new life, writes, “Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.”

The things that Paul talks about are the things that should matter the most for each of us. We are God’s children and chosen by Him to be His holy people that He loves. As His children, we know that God watches over us and guides our every step. We have nothing to fear or dread. 

As we do His work, we are to do it in the spirit of love and to always be thankful. By living a life that is filled with joy, mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience, our lives are full and we lack nothing.

Each morning as I wake up, I thank God for the gift of life and for the day ahead. When I close my eyes in sleep, I thank Him for the blessings of that day and ask Him to watch over and protect my family as we slumber. In each prayer, I pray that His will be done in my life and that I follow wherever He leads me.

In 1872, Annie Hawks and Robert Lowry wrote a beautiful hymn that should always be in our hearts. That hymn, “I Need Thee Every Hour”, has been on my heart during the last week. There is a particular part of the first verse that gives me comfort. The words, “no tender voice like thine can peace afford”, are very simple, but carry a deep meaning.

It is only His voice that brings me peace and unimaginable joy. He calms me when I am afraid and lends me His strength when mine is failing. In all times, good or bad, our Heavenly Father is there. It is our faith that binds ourselves to Him and keeps us from concentrating on the things of lesser importance.

As you go through this week, concentrate on the most important thing in your life, that faith that binds you closely to the Father. Don’t let the things of his world pull you away from Him. Let the words of that wonderful hymn, “I Need Thee Every Hour”, be your guide to peace, joy, love, service and humility. When you forget about the things of the world and focus on the most important things like your faith, you can definitely stand firm in His grace. 

 

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - Godly Friendship

As I stare at the third kernel of corn and ponder its meaning of friendship, I realize that it is not just having friends that makes a difference to others. What really makes the difference is being a godly friend to those around us. When you think about friends and friendship, many immediately think about how many friends they have through social media and how many instant message buddies they have. Should the number of friends make a difference in your life or should the quality of each be the defining criteria for each relationship.

The noted American author, Alice Walker, once said, “I don't need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends I can be certain of.”

When you look back at the Pilgrims who came to this new world in search of religious freedom, they ran into heartache and hardship at almost every turn in their collective lives. Crop failures, harsh winters, death from starvation and disease and so many other tragedies filled their lives daily. However, things changed for them when God, in His infinite love, provided to those early settlers help in the form of Native Americans. 

Those new friends helped the Pilgrims get back on their feet and, in time, those same folks who endured heartache and hardship alike were able to sit down at a table and behold the bounty and blessings of God and share those same blessings with their new friends, the Native Americans.

As we think about the friendship between the settlers and the natives of this land, we must look at the quality of that friendship and at ourselves. The Native Americans came to the aid of the Pilgrims in their dire need. Would you do the same for your friends? If a friend’s spouse were in the hospital fighting for his or her life, would you come to the aid of the spouse? Would you sacrifice for them just to help take that person to the hospital to visit their dying loved one? Would you bring a meal to the house?

I have seen first hand the generosity of the few that would come to the aid of those around them. I have seen a few climb up on rooftops during storms to patch a leaky roof. I have seen those who have walked miles to feed those who were stuck in their homes during ice storms. Those are individuals that exemplify the definition of a true friend.

In chapter eighteen of the Book of Proverbs, the author writes, “There are ‘friends’ who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.”

True friendship means that we stick together closer than a person’s family. As friends, we should come to the aid of our friends even when it is inconvenient. We all have our own lives and things to deal with, but, as true friends, we should be willing to help whenever and with whatever is needed. My father said that friendship does not keep hours or have a schedule.

I used to think it was an odd thing to say until my wife and I received calls from our congregation either late at night or very early in the morning. Since we served a retirement community as pastors, my wife and I were on call all the time to lend a shoulder of comfort or strength. Sometimes, we wept with someone over the passing of a spouse or a dear friend. Other times we worked to bring joy into the lives of those we served.

No matter the situation, we were there for each and we helped wherever and whenever we could. God gave us the blessings of a flock to care for and watch over. 

In chapter ten of the Gospel of John, Jesus said, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd. The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life—only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up again. This command I received from my Father.”

For me, friendship is the same as being a good shepherd. A true friend will stand shoulder to shoulder with his or her friend and not let any harm come to that friend. The greatest gift you can give someone is being a friend who will not run when things get rough.

When I first became the pastor to our congregation at Lakeline Oaks Retirement Community, I met the activity director. Dave, a former pastor, charged me with one thing. Those words that he said have always guided my life and I thank God for him and those words.

He said, “Take care of the flock. Watch over them. Be the ‘good shepherd’.”

The words of my earthly father and those words of my brother in Christ, Dave, have directed my actions and taught me how to be that friend who is closer than a brother. As friends, we should always and, without question, share in the burdens of our friends.

The author of Ecclesiastes writes in chapter four, “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.”

A true friend will always lift you up and help you with your burden. Lending a hand in the worst of times is the true sign of a deep friendship that transcends everything.

When you look at the friendship between the Pilgrims and the Native Americans, they barely had an understanding of each other’s culture or language. I am sure that it was very difficult at times and probably frustrating. But, each was willing to give and receive for the sake of the other.

Friendship is built upon that give and take. At some point, we may need help from a friend while, at other times, we may need to give to our friends. No matter what the situation is, we always give and take with kindness, love and humility.

Paul writes in chapter three of his letter to the Colossians, “Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.”

As you ponder the third kernel of corn and thank the Lord God for your friends, remember the lesson from this message. Be a godly friend to those you know. Help wherever and whenever you can. Lend a hand or shoulder to those who bear great burdens. Weep with those who mourn. Be joyful with those who celebrate. When you live Paul’s words and clothe yourself in love, you can truly stand firm in His grace. 

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Daily Word of God - Colossians 4:2-6

Colossians 4:2-6 New International Version (NIV)

Further Instructions

2 Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. 3 And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. 4 Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. 5 Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. 6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

Daily Word of God - Colossians 3:12-15

Colossians 3:12-15 New International Version (NIV)

12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

Happy Labor Day!

Colossians 3:23-24 New Living Translation (NLT)

23 Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. 24 Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward, and that the Master you are serving is Christ.[a]

Footnotes:

1. 3:24 Or and serve Christ as your Master.

Daily Word of God - Colossians 1:15-20

Colossians 1:15-20 New International Version (NIV)

The Supremacy of the Son of God

15 The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. 16 For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. 17 He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 18 And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. 19 For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, 20 and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross.