✟ Ask for Wisdom: Anchoring Your Life in God

In today’s world, there is no shortage of advice. At every turn, we are met with opinions, suggestions, and philosophies that claim to be the answer to life’s problems. The internet is filled with voices offering so-called wisdom, and social media often shapes the thoughts of hearts young and old alike. But in this sea of worldly counsel, there stands a singular and unwavering truth: real wisdom—divine wisdom—comes from God alone.

James 1:5 (NLT) tells us plainly: “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking.” What a comforting promise. God does not scold us for not knowing. He does not condemn us for our need. Instead, He graciously and generously provides the wisdom we seek—if only we ask.

This message is a call back to the First Pillar: Keeping God at the Center of Our Lives. It is about recognizing that when we need clarity, understanding, or discernment, we must not look inward or outward—but upward, toward our Heavenly Father.

To illustrate this truth, we will look to the story of King Solomon in 1 Kings 3:1–15, a young ruler faced with a monumental task. When given the opportunity to ask for anything, he chose wisdom—and God was pleased.

Solomon had just taken the throne of Israel after the death of his father, David. He was young and inexperienced, and the weight of leadership loomed large over him. In 1 Kings 3:5, we read, “That night the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream, and God said, ‘What do you want? Ask, and I will give it to you!’”

What would most people ask for in such a moment? Power? Riches? Long life? Victory over enemies? But Solomon, acknowledging his limitations and responsibilities, replied in verse 9, “Give me an understanding heart so that I can govern your people well and know the difference between right and wrong.”

This request was not born out of selfishness or ambition. It was the humble petition of a servant who wanted to serve God’s people well. It was a God-focused desire, born from a heart that honored the Lord above all else. And because Solomon asked for something that aligned with God’s will, the Lord responded with great joy.

In 1 Kings 3:10–12, we read, “The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for wisdom. So God replied, ‘Because you have asked for wisdom in governing my people with justice... I will give you what you asked for! I will give you a wise and understanding heart such as no one else has had or ever will have!’”

Not only did God give Solomon wisdom, but He added blessings beyond what was requested—riches and honor—as a demonstration of His overflowing generosity.

Now, fast forward to the New Testament. James, writing to believers scattered throughout the world, gives a timeless promise: “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you.” This is not a promise for kings alone. It is for all who believe.

You don’t need to be royalty to ask for divine insight. Whether you’re a parent struggling to raise a child in a broken world, a student facing difficult choices, a church leader making ministry decisions, or a weary soul unsure of the next step, God says, “Ask Me.”

There is no hesitation in God’s heart to answer. As the verse continues, “He will not rebuke you for asking.” Our God does not shame us for needing His guidance. He delights in our dependence on Him.

But we must ask in faith, believing not only that God can give wisdom—but that He will. The more we seek His voice, the more clearly we hear it. The more we study His Word, the more deeply His truth takes root. And the more we listen to His Spirit, the more discernment we gain.

When we receive God’s wisdom, our lives begin to align with His will. This is the fruit of the First Pillar—a life anchored in the truth and presence of God.

Solomon’s story is a beacon for us. His wisdom became legendary. Nations sent envoys to sit at his feet. Yet it all began with a simple, God-centered prayer: “Lord, give me wisdom.” That prayer changed not only his life but the course of a nation.

So too for us, wisdom is not a lofty, unattainable ideal—it is the very breath of God offered to His children who seek Him. And as we grow in His wisdom, our lives take on new depth:

• We make decisions not based on fleeting desires but eternal truths.
• We treat others with grace because we understand God’s mercy.
• We lead our families, our churches, and our communities with compassion and integrity.

When God is the source of our wisdom, He remains the center of our life, guiding every step and illuminating every path.

Dear brothers and sisters, there is no shame in admitting that we do not know it all. In fact, that admission is the beginning of wisdom. God is ready to answer. He stands with open hands, eager to pour His truth into our hearts.

As Solomon asked, so should we. As James urged, so must we follow: Ask. Ask with faith. Ask with humility. Ask with the desire to honor God in all that you do.

Let us no longer live according to the wisdom of the world, but according to the perfect wisdom of our God.

As you reflect on the message today, consider where you have been seeking wisdom. Has it come from prayer, or from popularity? From God, or from Google? Let us return to the source of all wisdom—our generous God.

This week, I encourage you to begin each day with a simple yet powerful prayer:

“Lord, give me wisdom. Guide my words, decisions, and thoughts, so that I may live for Your glory.”

And as your heart aligns with His, remember those around you who may be seeking answers without hope. Extend your hand. Give from your abundance. Support your local food pantry or help someone in need. Your actions are living testimony of the wisdom and compassion God has planted in you.

For as Jesus said in Matthew 25:45 (NLT), “I tell you the truth, when you refused to help the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were refusing to help me.”

So, I say to you, “May the Lord strengthen your faith and use it for His glory, as you walk humbly in His presence.”