Faith Begins at Home

Before there were churches, before there were kings, and before any human institutions were formed, God, in His infinite wisdom, ordained the family. In the garden of Eden, God declared, “This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one” (Genesis 2:24, NLT). The family, therefore, is not a product of culture or human design—it is divine in origin.

As Paul writes to Timothy, a young pastor charged with shepherding the church in Ephesus, he does not shy away from the foundational matters of the faith. In 1 Timothy 5:8 (NLT), we find this sobering declaration: “But those who won’t care for their relatives, especially those in their own household, have denied the true faith. Such people are worse than unbelievers.” These words are not simply a command—they are a piercing indictment of what it means to neglect the sacred calling to care for one’s family.

The Second Pillar of a God-Centered Life, The Importance of Family, is not just a value we hold dear; it is a responsibility woven into the very fabric of our faith. Our homes must reflect our devotion to God, not only in prayer and worship but in compassion, provision, and everyday sacrifice. A strong and faithful walk with the Lord begins not in public worship but in the quiet, unseen moments of familial faithfulness.

In this message, we will explore why Paul placed such high importance on caring for one’s household, how this care is directly tied to our profession of faith, and what it means today to live out the Gospel starting at home. For if we fail to love and lead within our own walls, how can we expect to be credible ambassadors for Christ beyond them?

The Apostle Paul, under divine inspiration, does not mince words in 1 Timothy 5:8. The verse is a striking admonition: “But those who won’t care for their relatives, especially those in their own household, have denied the true faith. Such people are worse than unbelievers.” Such language demands our full attention, for it draws a line not merely between belief and unbelief, but between genuine faith and hypocrisy.

At the heart of Paul’s instruction is the understanding that our care for family is not optional—it is spiritual. To neglect the needs of those within our household is not merely a failure of responsibility; it is a denial of the very faith we claim to possess. In a world where faith is often seen as what one professes with their lips, Scripture reminds us that faith is more accurately measured by what we practice with our lives.

Paul was addressing a specific context in the early church—how to care for widows and dependent family members—but the principle applies universally. A person who claims to follow Christ but fails to meet the needs of their own family brings reproach upon the Gospel. In fact, Paul says that such a person is worse than an unbeliever—not because they have sinned more grievously, but because their conduct undermines the truth they claim to uphold.

Let us be clear: the faith we carry into the world must be born in the home. It is not enough to serve on church committees or speak eloquently of theology if one is neglectful, dismissive, or absent when it comes to the well-being of their spouse, their children, or their aging parents. If our faith is real, it will first manifest in daily, tangible acts of love and provision within our household.

There is a sacredness to family care. Whether it is ensuring food is on the table, listening with patience, or praying with and for your loved ones, each act of love becomes a living testimony of Christ’s love within us. The spiritual weight of this responsibility cannot be overstated—it is a foundational expression of true, Christ-centered discipleship.

If the Church is the body of Christ, then the family is its beating heart. It is within the sacred space of our homes that the Gospel is first seen, heard, and either confirmed or contradicted. Yet in our modern age, the nuclear family faces relentless assault—not only from cultural norms that devalue marriage and parental roles, but from a spirit of distraction that fractures unity and silences godly engagement.

Paul’s warning in 1 Timothy 5:8 is not isolated from today’s realities. Fathers, once recognized as spiritual heads of the household, are often absent—physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Mothers, overwhelmed and under-supported, struggle to carry burdens they were never meant to bear alone. Children are frequently raised by digital devices instead of parents, and shared meals have become times of isolation, where faces glow not from candlelight or conversation, but from cell phone screens.

This was not God’s design.

The family was intended to be the first sanctuary, the first classroom, the first congregation. It is within the home that children are to be taught the Word of God (Deuteronomy 6:6–7). It is where husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church (Ephesians 5:25), and where wives respect and support their husbands (Ephesians 5:33). It is the very soil in which the next generation of disciples is to be planted and nurtured.

And yet, we see the sacred undone by the secular. We see commitment traded for convenience. Conversations replaced by notifications. Covenant love dismantled by casual living.

If we are to reclaim our homes for Christ, we must restore the family as our first ministry field. That means fathers must rise and reclaim their God-given role as spiritual leaders—not through domination, but through devotion. It means families must carve out time to read Scripture, pray together, and speak life to one another. It means putting down devices, turning off the noise, and being fully present in the sacred fellowship of home.

Our homes should echo with hymns, with laughter, with loving correction, and with grace. This is not a fantasy—it is a holy calling. The Church will never be stronger than the families that compose it. The Second Pillar—The Importance of Family—is not an accessory to faith. It is its very proving ground.

The enemy is subtle. He does not always attack the family with a sword—sometimes he does so with a screen, a schedule, or a subtle shift in values. One of the greatest challenges of our time is not open rebellion, but quiet neglect. Families are not always torn apart by storms—they often drift apart slowly in silence.

We live in a world where busyness is worn like a badge of honor. Parents are stretched thin, chasing after promotions, extracurriculars, social obligations, and digital distractions. But in this relentless pursuit of more, something sacred is often left behind: the intentional care and spiritual nurturing of the family. Paul’s words in 1 Timothy 5:8 expose this danger. We may be busy “doing good,” but if we are failing our family, we are failing our faith.

How many fathers have sacrificed spiritual leadership for career advancement? How many mothers are so overburdened that they have no time to reflect on their own spiritual well-being, let alone guide their children in it? How many children are being raised not with God’s Word, but by YouTube, TikTok, and whatever ideology comes through their feeds? And how often do families sit in the same room, each lost in their own digital world, strangers to one another in heart and soul?

This is not just a cultural concern—it is a spiritual crisis.

The Word of God does not conform to the times—it confronts them. We are called to steward our families with reverence, attentiveness, and sacrificial love. Stewardship means more than providing financially—it means being emotionally available, spiritually engaged, and relationally invested. It means saying no to the good so we can say yes to the godly.

Our faith must interrupt our routines. It must reclaim our time and rearrange our priorities. If our family life does not reflect our faith, then we are not truly living by faith. Paul’s rebuke is a holy warning: when we neglect our family, especially those in our own household, we do violence to the Gospel we profess.

But there is hope. Always hope. The Holy Spirit empowers us to reset, to return, to restore. The first step is recognizing that our home is not a side concern—it is the front lines of spiritual warfare. We must rise with courage, humility, and conviction to take it back.

If ever there were a moment when a person could be excused from concern for family—when the weight of divine mission, physical suffering, and eternal consequence might overshadow earthly relationships—it would be at Calvary. And yet, Jesus, from the cross, paused amid His agony to ensure the care of His mother. In John 19:26–27 (NLT), we read: “When Jesus saw his mother standing there beside the disciple he loved, he said to her, ‘Dear woman, here is your son.’ And he said to this disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from then on this disciple took her into his home.”

Let the weight of that moment rest upon us. Jesus, pierced and dying, still fulfilled His duty as a Son. He modeled for us a love that does not forsake family, even when burdened with the salvation of the world. That is more than a gesture—it is a divine testimony to the sacred bond of family.

Our Savior did not only preach love—He lived it, and in His final breaths, He honored it. We are to do the same.

Today, many seek to live out their faith in public spaces, in platforms, in ministries, and missions. But our first and foremost calling is to live out our faith in our homes. That is where love must first be seen. That is where forgiveness must take root. That is where Christ must be enthroned.

Every word we speak to our spouse in love, every prayer whispered over a sleeping child, every tear shed in intercession for a wayward son or daughter—these are the true marks of a living faith. A family rooted in Christ is a witness that preaches louder than any pulpit ever could.

Paul’s charge to Timothy was not about institutional caretaking alone—it was about embodying Christ in the most personal and practical way: by honoring those whom God has placed in our charge. Whether aging parents, young children, or struggling relatives, the home is where our theology becomes our testimony.

And so, we are reminded that the Second Pillar—The Importance of Family—is not an accessory to faith but an essential fruit of it. Our families are not perfect, but when they are grounded in Christ, they become places of grace, discipleship, restoration, and peace.

We have heard the Word. We have felt its weight. Now we must respond—not merely with agreement, but with action. For the family, as God designed it, is not a social convenience; it is a sacred covenant. It is where faith is forged, where love is lived, and where Christ is first known.

Paul’s charge in 1 Timothy 5:8 stands not as a relic of ancient instruction, but as a burning standard for today. “But those who won’t care for their relatives, especially those in their own household, have denied the true faith. Such people are worse than unbelievers.” These are not words to gloss over—they are words to awaken us. For what good is it to profess Christ if we deny Him in our homes?

So today, I call upon you—fathers, rise up and become the spiritual leaders of your families. Your children need more than provision—they need prayerful direction. Your wives need more than support—they need to see your faith in action, lived out in humility and strength.

Mothers, your nurturing hands shape the soul of the household. Never underestimate the power of your love, your prayers, your perseverance. You are not just raising children—you are raising future disciples.

Sons and daughters, honor those who raised you. Whether you are still under your parents’ roof or now raising families of your own, do not forget the commandment: “Honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12, NLT). Let respect, gratitude, and reconciliation be the fruit of your walk in Christ.

And to all—put down your phones at the dinner table. Turn off the noise. Reclaim conversation. Rediscover what it means to share a meal, to pray aloud, to weep together, to laugh without distraction. Let your homes ring not with the silence of disengagement but with the sound of godly fellowship.

If your family has fractured, pray. If communication has dried up, speak. If leadership has been abdicated, return. The Lord is merciful and ready to restore what the world has tried to tear down. But we must act—deliberately, urgently, prayerfully.

Let today be the day you recommit to the sacred stewardship of your home. The Second Pillar—The Importance of Family—demands no less. For in caring for those within your household, you proclaim a faith that is not only confessed with the lips but lived with the heart.

So, I say to you, "May the Lord strengthen your faith and use it for His glory, as you walk humbly in His presence."

The Importance of Family

In the continuing journey through the four foundational pillars that shape a God-centered life, we come now to the second pillar: the importance of family. Last week, we laid the cornerstone by declaring the essential truth that God must remain the center of all we are and all we do. Today, we turn to the next divine priority—the sacred institution of family, created by God, nurtured in His love, and designed to be the first earthly expression of our faith.

As we begin, let us open our hearts to the conviction and instruction of the Word of God in 1 Timothy 5:8 (ESV). 

“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

These words are sobering. They remind us that family is not a casual obligation—it is a spiritual mandate. It is a trust given to us by God that must be guarded, nurtured, and honored.

From the very beginning, family was established by the hand of God. In Genesis 2:24, we read, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

In this sacred moment, the covenant of marriage was instituted, and the foundation for the family was laid. This was not a human invention, but a divine design.

Family is God’s first institution, predating the church and government. It is within the family that love is first learned, discipline first applied, and faith first seen in action. When God is honored in the home, the household becomes a sanctuary of peace and a place where Christ is lifted up.

Family is more than a group of individuals who share a home. It is the first church, the first school, and the first place where the heart is shaped. In Deuteronomy 6:6–7, the Lord commands, “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…” Faith was never intended to be taught only in formal settings. It was meant to be passed from one generation to the next in the rhythms of daily life—through conversation, example, correction, and encouragement.

Parents are charged with the holy task of raising children in the fear and knowledge of the Lord. Grandparents, siblings, and extended family members also play essential roles in modeling Christlike love and service. When the family unit is grounded in Scripture, the home becomes a beacon of light in a dark world.

Yet we must not ignore the reality of our times. In today’s society, the family is under siege. The rise of self-centered living, relentless busyness, and moral confusion has led to widespread brokenness within the home. Fathers and mothers are often absent—not merely in presence, but in spiritual leadership. Children are being discipled by screens and culture rather than by Scripture and godly example.

This breakdown is not accidental. The enemy understands that when the family is fractured, the church and the community are weakened. We must therefore be vigilant in protecting and restoring what God has ordained. We must reject the notion that family is disposable or secondary. It is essential.

How then do we respond? We begin by restoring the family altar. This is not a piece of furniture—it is a way of life. It means making time each day to gather in prayer, read the Word together, and talk openly about the things of God. It means eating meals together, asking for forgiveness when we fall short, and seeking the Lord’s direction in every decision.

It means fathers and mothers praying over their children. It means children honoring their parents. It means turning off the distractions and turning our hearts back toward home. In Colossians 3:13–14, we are reminded to “bear with each other and forgive one another... and over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” Healing begins when humility is embraced and the Spirit of God is invited to reign once again in the home.

As we continue in this series, we will explore two more pillars: simplifying our lives and stewarding our health in order to serve God more fully. But let it be clearly stated—without a God-centered home, simplicity is elusive, and even service can become burdensome. A strong family, built on faith, is essential for living a life that glorifies the Lord in every season.

This week, I invite you to reflect on your role within your family. Whether you are a parent, child, spouse, sibling, or grandparent—ask yourself: *How am I honoring God through my family relationships?

If there is distance, seek reconciliation. If there is silence, start a conversation. If there is weariness, ask God for renewal. Commit to praying together, studying the Word together, and serving one another in love.

God has entrusted you with your family—not by chance, but by divine appointment. Let your home be a place where Christ is known, seen, and praised.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1 (ESV)

Trust the Lord to build, restore, and bless your family as you commit it to Him. He is faithful.

May the Lord strengthen your faith and use it for His glory, as you walk humbly in His presence.

Mid-Week Message - Be Rich in Good Deeds

"Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.  Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.  In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life."  1 Timothy 6:17-19  (NIV) 

Andy Warhol's painting of Marilyn Monroe is expected to sell at auction for an estimate of $200 million.  A 1962 Ferrari GTO that was originally sold for $18,000 sold at auction in 2021 for $48.4 million and the Pink Star diamond, considered to be one of the world's rarest, was sold in 2021 in Hong Kong for $71 million. 

Those figures are unbelievable to those of us who just hope to have enough money to eventually retire.  Imagine having enough money to spend that much on just one item!  I know there are collector's that are willing to spend vast amounts to add to their rare possessions but I keep thinking about what could be done and who could be helped with the dollars they are throwing toward something that will eventually be destroyed.  

Years ago, Beanie Babies were all the rage.  I remember one shop owner told me that it was adults who were purchasing them and saving them hoping that they would increase in value enough for them to be able to sell them in the future and make a hefty profit.  Perhaps some made a bit of money off of them but today I find them in resell and thrift shops for very little.  Obviously, at least most of them did not produce the returns that folks were hoping for.  

We live in a world of "more."  So many are unsatisfied with what they have and seek to increase their wealth.  As the bank accounts grow, so does the desire for more clothes, better cars and bigger homes that then demand new furniture, nicer landscaping and more opulent decor.  But, while we work to grow our personal kingdoms, there are people in this world who are going without.

According to World Vision, 8.9% of the world's population goes to bed with empty stomachs.  If that doesn't sound like a lot, let me put it in numbers.  690 million people have nothing to eat.  If this trend continues it is estimated that by 2030 that number will be around 840 million.  In addition, more than 884 million people do not have safe water to drink, and countless more have no access to modern medicines to fight disease.  

Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:19-21, "Do not store up for yourselves treasure on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."  

As Christians, we need to be aware that God may be gifting us in order for us to share with others.  Our first priority should be to take care of those who cannot take care of themselves.  If someone is hungry, they need food.  If someone is thirsty, they need water.  There are widows and orphans and we have been commanded to look after them.  

We cannot expect those who do not know Jesus to act in a Christian manner.  But we can be vigilant in our own lives about sharing what we have and being "rich in good deeds."  We do not need expensive paintings, antique cars or brilliant jewels more than others need to experience the love and caring of the Lord.  Our calling is to love with His love and to share the Gospel that others might be saved.  God bless!  

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - A New Heart and a New Spirit

Over the past couple of months, I have been repeatedly asked a simple, yet poignant question, “Are we living in the end times?”

Many televangelists quote one particular verse in the Book of Revelation to scare those who watch their television programs into giving them more money or to buy survival food or whatever they are peddling to those who wish to be prepared. In fact, most do not even mention salvation to those who walk in darkness. If salvation is even mentioned, it is the last item that is discussed in passing and it is relegated to being more of a footnote rather than the single message to those who desperately need the Good News.

 In chapter six of the Book of Revelation, the author, John, writes, “I looked up and saw a horse whose color was pale green. Its rider was named Death, and his companion was the Grave. These two were given authority over one-fourth of the earth, to kill with the sword and famine and disease and wild animals.”

When you look at everything that is going on in the world, it is so very easy to see wars, famines and disease taking their toll on the global population. However, you need to remember the words of Jesus when he talked about the future.

In chapter twenty-four of the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus, while talking about the future, says, “Don’t let anyone mislead you, for many will come in my name, claiming, ‘I am the Messiah.’ They will deceive many. And you will hear of wars and threats of wars, but don’t panic. Yes, these things must take place, but the end won’t follow immediately. Nation will go to war against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in many parts of the world. But all this is only the first of the birth pains, with more to come.” 

These events will and must happen. It is just part of the plan. He goes further to tell us that the end won’t come immediately. These are the birth pains and are the first sign of things to come. 

Since the very beginning of recorded time, theologians, laymen, students of the Bible and even the most casual of Bible readers have all thought about when the “trumpet of the Lord will sound and time shall be no more”. For some, it is their preoccupation. For others, it is a way to scare people into accepting Jesus. 

For me, all of the things that must and will come to pass are just part of God's plan to build a new heaven and earth with the old ones passing away. All things will be new and evil will be once and for all vanquished and cast into a lake of fire forever.

Instead of concentrating on the wars, famines and diseases, look to the salvation that God has freely given to you. Don’t look to the things of this world or fall prey to those who are wolves in sheep’s clothing. These false teachers will lead you astray and deceive you. 

Jesus, in chapter seven of the Gospel of Matthew, “Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves.”

Paul, in his first letter to his brother in Christ Jesus, Timothy, writes in chapter six about these false teachers, “These people always cause trouble. Their minds are corrupt, and they have turned their backs on the truth. To them, a show of godliness is just a way to become wealthy.”

Don’t be deceived by those who preach the Word of God only to use it as a con to line their pockets. Their sweet words may taste sweet at first, but it will soon sour in your bellies. Don’t listen to their words. Listen to the voice and word of the Good Shepherd.

As His sheep, we know his voice and we already know the message. It is up to us to accept it and know that we have a place in Heaven with the Father forever. When we accept God’s gift of salvation, we know that we will see the results of wars, famines and diseases. We will be persecuted for our faith. But, we must remain steadfast in our faith. 

The prophet, Ezekiel, recorded these words from God regarding His restoration of His people, “Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean. Your filth will be washed away, and you will no longer worship idols. And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. And I will put my Spirit in you so that you will follow my decrees and be careful to obey my regulations.”

When we accept His son as our personal Savior and Lord, God, at that very moment, puts into each of us a new heart and a new spirit that allows us to follow His decrees and obey His laws. We no longer have a stony, stubborn heart that is prone to disobedience. Our hearts are tender and responsive to the true voice of the Master as He calls us to Him.

We no longer cower in the dark. We bask in God’s holy light and love. Through His gift of salvation and the blood of His son, Christ Jesus, that was shed for our sins, we are transformed to walk in the newness of life.    

In time, this world will fade away and will no longer exist. A new heaven and a new earth are our inheritance as long as we walk daily with Jesus and follow his teachings. Remember, do not let your hearts be troubled. All of the things we face daily, whether it is COVID-19, food shortages, or whatever, are just the events we must face. But, in the end, we will stand victorious with Jesus, our Savior, and stand firm His grace.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - Use Your Gift According to His Will

As I continue this series on chapter twelve of Paul’s letter to those in Rome, I will be looking at the different gifts given to each of us by God, not only to serve Him but also to be used to serve others. Paul, in this chapter, discusses how to live as a sacrifice to God. Each day, we have an opportunity to do something that brings glory to the Father and, in the process, we are able to use those gifts to serve others. As we use those gifts, we must always remember where they came from. They did not magically appear or just pop out of nowhere. These gifts come directly from God and need to be used to glorify Him and to serve those around us. We should not use our gifts as a means of generating worldly profits. 

In chapter six of Paul’s first letter to Timothy, Paul writes to the young, budding preacher there at Ephesus, “But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.”

Money, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. Using our talent to provide for our daily needs is one thing. But, it is entirely different when you use your God-given gift to line your pockets at the expense of God’s people. The evil part of money comes when it becomes our one and only desire and our passion. We are no longer interested in glorifying God with the gift given to us by Him. It is our perversion of that gift that causes issues. The love of money only leads to ruin and destruction. When we spend more time selfishly working to milk the gift for all of its worth, we begin to wander away from the true faith.

For example, SFIHG Ministries does not sell items for donations. All of the donations that we receive goes into furthering God's work by sharing the Good News with all. My wife and I have given Bibles and crosses in the name of the Father to those who desperately need the Word. What little money that is left is used to build the ministry and grow it to reach more people. Websites and tools are not cheap, but providing the Word of God without cost is the first priority of our ministry. We have been very blessed by those who have become partners in sharing the Gospel and love of God to all. Over the years, our ministry received gifts from those who desired to give of their abundance to us to help those in need and provided them with Bibles without charge. No one should use his or her gift from God to profit from it. 

Starting with verse six, Paul writes in Romans, “In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.”

There are a couple of key points that Paul makes regarding the gifts we receive from God. The first is that all gifts come from God and through His grace. That means that the gifts cannot be earned or purchased. He gives them to us in accordance to His will and we are to use them to glorify Him and to serve those around us.

James, in chapter one of his epistle, writes, “Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow.”

Because of God’s very nature, whatever He provides is good and perfect and it comes directly from Him. So, the gift we receive must be used for good only. It should never be used to further our own selfish desires or passions. 

The other thing to consider is that we are not to squander our gifts but to use them well. Look closely at what Paul writes. He reminds us to use our gifts well and not to just “phone it in”. If we serve others, we must do it well. If we teach, we must do it well. The gift must never just be taken for granted or lightly. The use of our gifts should always show those around us where they came from and who is glorified by it. 

Peter, in chapter four of his first letter, puts it this way, “God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another. Do you have the gift of speaking? Then speak as though God himself were speaking through you. Do you have the gift of helping others? Do it with all the strength and energy that God supplies. Then everything you do will bring glory to God through Jesus Christ. All glory and power to him forever and ever! Amen.”

Peter drives the point home very well. When we use our gifts as intended by God, the outcome of their use is always the same. God, not us, is glorified. God supplies us with everything that is needed to use our gifts to their fullest potential.

When we realize that what we received from God are truly gifts from His bountiful hand, we are able to fully understand how we are to use those gifts. The use of all gifts should do two things. They should glorify God and should be used to serve others. 

As you continue your walk with the Lord, seek His will in everything you do. Use the gift you received from God in accordance to His will and in keeping with the example of His son, Christ Jesus. As you act as God’s living sacrifice daily, you can rest assured that you will always stand firm in His grace.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

A Day to Give Thanks - Reflect on Your Blessings

1 Timothy 4:4-5 New Living Translation (NLT)

4 Since everything God created is good, we should not reject any of it but receive it with thanks. 5 For we know it is made acceptable[a] by the word of God and prayer.

Footnotes:

1. 4:5 Or made holy.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - Your Heart’s Desire

Over the past couple of years, many of my friends have seen my family and I go through some very difficult times. Some have even asked me, “How are you even able to make it through it?” Others will quote the last part of Psalm 37, “4b he will give you your heart’s desires.”

They seem to forget about the early part of the verse. If you have forgotten or do not exactly remember it, the psalmist writes, ”Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” 

What does the verse really mean to those who are facing unemployment, illness or some other major problems or obstacles in their lives? As I had mentioned earlier, my family has gone through many heartaches in just a short period of time. The latest was the illness that nearly took my life. The medical bills alone consumed almost everything we had. We were left with almost nothing. But, we knew that God was there and that He would provide. 

My father and father-in-law were perfect examples for me to derive strength and inspiration from. Both men were very proud of being self-sufficient and worked very hard to provide for their families even when it meant going without many times.

Earlier this week, one of my colleagues at work related a story about her father. She told me that he would go to work with a jar of peanut butter and a loaf of bread for lunch. While others were going out to eat, he ate a simple, cheap lunch in order to save money for his daughter’s Christian education. Between housing, education, and other things, there wasn’t that much left at the beginning or end of the month. So, he went without to provide for his family.

Each father goes through the same thing for his family. He goes without so that they can enjoy life. The real question is why do they do it? The answer is very simple. They take delight in knowing that their families are able to enjoy life. It is that delight that keeps them going and doing everything that the family needs. They do not call it a “duty” or “suffering”. They do it out of love for their family. 

Christian fathers thank God daily for the blessings of their family and for the ability and opportunity to continue to serve not only God but also their families. Even as I grow older, I learn that my delight comes from providing for my family and, most importantly, serving God and His Kingdom.

But, there are times when I wish things were easier. I sometimes find myself wishing that we didn’t have to go through the difficulties we experienced and continue to experience. For example, I am still dealing with the consequences of my illness. Each day that I have to endure the discomfort is another day and reminder of what I face daily. There are times when I beg the Lord for better or more blessings. God gently reminds me that His grace is sufficient.

Paul, in his second letter to the Corinthians, tells them what God told him about, what he refers to as the thorn in his side or Satan’s messengers. He pleads with God three times to take it away. God responds to his pleading, “9 Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.”

What I have learned over time is that my purpose in life is simple. I am to take delight in the Lord and follow the example of His son, Christ Jesus. I am not to concern myself with other things. I do not need to wonder where He is or if He will provide for my needs. All I need to do is to take delight in Him and know that He will give me the desires of my heart. 

The second part is the most difficult for most of us. It is the “heart’s desire” part that really confounds us. I am sitting in a mall as I write this message. As I look around, I see people with shopping bags and money and credit cards flashing all over the place. If I were to approach some of them and ask what would make them happy, many would ask for more money, a bigger house and a brand new car. Those are the top two things that most lottery winners buy first after getting their huge pile of money. Many say the same thing, “If I just had more money, I would be happy.”

Psychologists have all said, “Money does not bring happiness.” In fact, money seems to bring only more problems and headaches. Some lottery winners spend everything and end up worse off then they were before they had money. Some declare bankruptcy while others spend and spend and spend in order to find happiness. 

In his first epistle to the young pastor, Timothy, Paul gives him the following advice in chapter 6, “10 For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.”

Think about the words of Paul as it pertains to our heart’s desire. Money only brings woe when it becomes the root of our existence. When we begin to crave money, that craving becomes our desire and it causes us to wander away from God. We begin to beg God for more and more money. It seems that the more money we have; the more of it we want and desire. Money seems to just drives us away from God and not any closer to Him.

So, what should our desire be? We should not only bend our knees to God, but we should also bend our hearts to Him. The desire of our hearts should be God’s desire for us. When we seek Him and His will in our lives, things always get better. 

When I looked at our bank account and saw the money dwindling away with each medical bill, I felt that I had no way out of this predicament. I thought that we would lose everything and have nothing. There were so many times when I drove past a homeless person on the street and prayed, “Lord, please do not turn us out onto the street.”

Just like Paul, I received the same message from Him. Reading from “The Message” translation, God said in 2 Corinthians 12, “At first I didn’t think of it as a gift, and begged God to remove it. Three times I did that, and then he told me, ‘My grace is enough; it’s all you need. My strength comes into its own in your weakness.’ Once I heard that, I was glad to let it happen. I quit focusing on the handicap and began appreciating the gift.”

I chose this translation to reiterate the words of God to Paul. When we align our hearts to God’s will and let it become the desire of our hearts, things change for the better. We become more appreciative of the blessings that He showers upon us daily and we are humbled by the one gift of His, salvation, that we received when we accepted His son as our personal Savior and Lord.

I ask each of you reading this message to think about your heart’s desire. Is it more money that you desire with the idea that more will make things better? Is it a bigger house, faster car or more of what this sinful world has to offer? Examine what each will do for you. Will faster, bigger or more really bring you happiness or will it result in a craving for more? That craving only leads to destruction and brings more woe and want. 

If you look to the Lord and take delight in Him by not only bending your knee but also bending your heart to His will and love, you will soon find the true and real desire of your heart. God will always provide for your needs and show you the way, but you have to allow His will and love to guide you.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Daily Word of God - 1 Timothy 2:1-8

1 Timothy 2:1-8 New International Version (NIV)

Instructions on Worship

2 I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— 2 for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 3 This is good, and pleases God our Savior, 4 who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all people. This has now been witnessed to at the proper time. 7 And for this purpose I was appointed a herald and an apostle—I am telling the truth, I am not lying—and a true and faithful teacher of the Gentiles.

8 Therefore I want the men everywhere to pray, lifting up holy hands without anger or disputing.

Daily Word of God - 1 Timothy 6:6-10

1 Timothy 6:6-10 New International Version (NIV)

6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.9 Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - Not Far from the Kingdom

While I was doing some reading in the Gospel of Mark, I ran across a passage that had me thinking for weeks on end. As I continued to think about the conversation between a religious teacher and Jesus, Jesus’ last words began to really sink into my heart and soul. 

Jesus said to the teacher in Mark 12, “34 You are not far from the Kingdom of God.”

Let us look at the context of the entire conversation. A religious teacher asks Jesus which commandment is the most important. Jesus replies that each person must “love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind and all your strength.” Jesus is referencing the Book of Deuteronomy, specifically chapter 6:4-5. Almost in the same breath, he adds that it is equally as important to love your neighbor as yourself. He then adds, “No other commandment is greater than these.”

The teacher responds, “This is more important than to offer all of the burnt offerings and sacrifices required by the law.”

After saying that, Jesus then tells him that he is not far from the kingdom of God. These two simple commandments are the ones that should be the basis not only of our faith but also of our teachings.

When we have an opportunity to share the word of God in its purest form, there are no fancy words or need to begin a dissertation on any other points in the Bible. The truth is the truth and, as Jesus states in John 8, “31 You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. 32 And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

As that teacher proclaimed those words of truth, he realizes that no amount of burnt offerings or sacrifices are as important as those two commandments.

When we accept those truths for ourselves, we free ourselves from the ideas of men and truly live as God intended for us to live which is to live in love not only for God the Father but also for our neighbors. 

Remember what Paul writes Timothy in his first letter in chapter 1, “4 Don’t let them waste their time in endless discussion of myths and spiritual pedigrees. These things only lead to meaningless speculations, which don’t help people live a life of faith in God. 5 The purpose of my instruction is that all believers would be filled with love that comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith.”

Look closely at the two commandments that Jesus talks about. What do they have in common? The answer is very simple. It is love. Our love should come from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith when it comes to God and our neighbors.

Our lives should not be shrouded in endless discussions regarding religion or what things are more important. Jesus has already given us the lesson. Our place in the kingdom is to teach the Word as it was given to us.

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus, in chapter 5, says in his Sermon on the Mount, “19 So if you ignore the least commandment and teach others to do the same, you will be called the least in the Kingdom of Heaven. But anyone who obeys God’s laws and teaches them will be called great in the Kingdom of Heaven. 20 But I warn you—unless your righteousness is better than the righteousness of the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven!” 

In order for us to maintain our great place in the Kingdom of Heaven, we must obey all of God’s laws and teach them as given to all others. We teach the truth, the simple truth given to us in the words of Jesus. We do not add or detract from the Word of God. It is plain, simple and the truth.

Early in the passage, Jesus says, “17 Don’t misunderstand why I have come. I did not come to abolish the law of Moses or the writings of the prophets. No, I came to accomplish their purpose. 18 I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not even the smallest detail of God’s law will disappear until its purpose is achieved.”

Jesus talks about accomplishing their purpose and achieving their purpose. The purpose of the laws is to help us with our relationship with God the Father and our neighbors. The truth that Jesus reveals to us is the guide to reaching the Kingdom of Heaven.

By following the teachings of Jesus, understanding and applying the Word and teaching others the truth, we are closer to the Kingdom just as Jesus stated when the teacher realized the truth revealed in the words of Jesus. We should never engage in myths and spiritual pedigrees. When we do this, we detract from the Word and push our own ideas and agenda on others. We are not here to do that. We are here to speak the truth as it was revealed to us.

As you continue your walk with the Lord, always remember what we are to work towards. We are to keep God’s law by loving Him without condition or reservation and to love our neighbors as ourselves. When we do those things, the other laws are easy to follow and their purpose is achieved and accomplished. It is not enough to hear the words. We must live those words daily by showing them in action.

If you do not have a relationship with God the Father and feel that there is something missing in your life, I ask you to read the words of Jesus and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you. John writes in Revelation 3, “20 Look! I (Jesus speaking) stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends.”

All it takes is a simple knock and opening that door to allow Jesus to come into your life. It is a simple act and response to a simple truth. 

Think about the words of Jesus and the purpose of the laws, especially the ones Jesus tells us are the most important. When we understand those laws, we are a step closer to the kingdom and able to stand firm in His grace.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - The True and Genuine Religion

Many years ago, I embarked on a study of the different religions and denominations to understand why some say, “This religion or denomination is the true religion.” The question of what religion or denomination is the true religion has been around for a long, long time and will, in all probability, remain with humankind for all time. 

Each religion or denomination will point out how they do this or that and why theirs is the true and genuine religion. As an independent biblical scholar, I have listened to and studied all of the different treatises, documents, books and interpretation for and against each one.

What struck me the most is what James wrote in the first chapter of his epistle. In one simple sentence, James captured the very essence of Christianity. James writes, “27 Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.”

There are a couple of key teachings in this one sentence that need further thought. The first is that the true and genuine religion is defined by God the Father and not man. If you believe that you can define salvation or determine that you are able to provide redemption through your own acts, then you are foolish in your thinking. Our Heavenly Father is the only one who can provide us salvation through His Son, Christ Jesus. It is only by acknowledging him as our personal Savior and Lord that we can receive the perfect and undeserving gift of grace. 

In Exodus, we discover one of God’s many names, Jehovah Mekoddishkem. This name translated means “The Lord Who Sanctifies You” or “The Lord Who Makes Holy”. It is only through Him that we can be sanctified or holy. In Exodus 31, the Lord tells Moses, “13 Tell the people of Israel: ‘Be careful to keep my Sabbath day, for the Sabbath is a sign of the covenant between me and you from generation to generation. It is given so you may know that I am the LORD, who makes you holy.’”

Only God can make you holy or sanctify you. We cannot just say we are made holy or create a religion or denomination out of thin air and call ourselves saved or holy. It is only by God the Father that we can be saved and become a member of His kingdom.

As you think about this, you begin to see that only God the Father can determine the true and genuine religion. The next part is equally important. The true and genuine religion is more than just a bunch of words or creed that is nailed to a wall. It is living religion that breathes and acts daily in accordance to the Word and the Will of the Lord. 

In the latter part of verse 27, James writes that religion means “caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.” The true and genuine religion is not only sanctified or made holy by God the Father but it also means that it causes us to act with compassion to those in need, particularly orphans and widows, and by refusing to allow the world to corrupt us. This means active participation and constant vigilance in our daily walk with the Lord. Once again, it is more than just a bunch of words strung together to make us feel good about ourselves. It requires us to be active participants in our true and genuine religion that comes from God. 

Later in his epistle, James writes in the second chapter, “19 You say you have faith, for you believe that there is one God. Good for you! Even the demons believe this, and they tremble in terror. 20 How foolish! Can’t you see that faith without good deeds is useless?”

James, once again in simple terms, tells us that faith and good deeds go hand in hand. We cannot have faith and call it enough. We must exercise our faith by doing those things we are called upon to do by Our Heavenly Father. 

Jesus, in Matthew 23, criticizes the religious leaders of his day and points out their ideas on religion. In that chapter, Jesus provides a scathing indictment of the religious leaders of his day, each working to push their own ideas of faith and taking advantage of their positions as religious leaders. As you read this chapter, you can easily see how the leaders of that time carefully maneuver around and manipulate the scriptures to give them what they want. Jesus calls them “blind guides” and “hypocrites”. 

In that same chapter of Matthew, Jesus says, “27 What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs—beautiful on the outside but filled on the inside with dead people’s bones and all sorts of impurity. 28 Outwardly you look like righteous people, but inwardly your hearts are filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness.”

If we follow our own ideas of religion and build our lives around them, then we are no better than the hypocrites of Jesus’ times. We are dead on the inside and filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness. We cannot, as Jesus told the multitude during the “Sermon on the Mount”, serve two masters. Although Jesus was speaking about money, those same words and lesson can be applied to religion. We cannot call ourselves Christians if we persist in creating our own religion to suit our own needs and desires. God the Father is the only one that sees that true and genuine religion and calls us to action to do good deeds to show others that we have faith.

In Antioch of Syria, some men from Judea preached to the believers there that they needed to be circumcised in order to be saved. Paul and Barnabas argued vehemently against this. Finally, delegates were selected and sent to Jerusalem to put to bed, once and for all, this question.

There was a long, drawn out discussion, some argued that believers needed to be circumcised while others argued that it was not necessary and are, as Peter states, “saved the same way, by the undeserved grace of the Lord Jesus.”

This debate, as recorded in Acts 15, nearly tears the early church apart. Finally, James stands up and gives the best summation of why Gentiles who are saved should not need to be circumcised. He states, “19 And so my judgment is that we should not make it difficult for the Gentiles who are turning to God. 20 Instead, we should write and tell them to abstain from eating food offered to idols, from sexual immorality, from eating the meat of strangled animals, and from consuming blood. 21 For these laws of Moses have been preached in Jewish synagogues in every city on every Sabbath for many generations.”

James, in just a few sentences, states the important things that the saved Gentiles should follow. He boils down what are the acceptable actions of the saved in the eyes of God. In short, nothing that is done by a person can save them. It is faith and the undeserved grace of the Lord Jesus that saves.

Paul, in his first letter to Timothy, writes the young preacher, “4 Don’t let them waste their time in endless discussion of myths and spiritual pedigrees. These things only lead to meaningless speculations, which don’t help people live a life of faith in God.”

Paul was talking about some of the men who engaged in endless discussions on the merits of certain teachings. The important thing is to live a life devoted to faith and loving and worshiping God the Father. Meaningless speculations only takes us away from our daily walk and clouds up the issues. By following the teachings of Jesus and the Word of God, we can live a simple Christ-like life devoted to serving and loving God and those around us. 

As you go through this week, I ask you to think about the words of Jesus, James and Paul and to reflect on your faith and the meaning of true and genuine religion. When you realize that we are all brothers and sisters in one family, you can easily and completely stand firm in His grace.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Afternoon Scripture Reading - 1 Timothy 6:6-10

1 Timothy 6:6-10 New International Version (NIV)

6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.9 Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.

Sunday Praise & Worship Message - The Virtues of Character

While I was driving to take care of some errands, I ran across a roadside sign that caught my attention. On it was a quote from the American novelist and short story writer, James Lane Allen. It read, “Adversity does not build character, it reveals it.”

As I continued to drive, that quote began to bounce around not only in my mind but also in my heart. That quote really struck me deeply. I really thought about the words. I began to apply it to Christian faith and our daily walk and life with the Lord.

As we go through difficult situations, character is not something we build in order to face problems. If we relied on ourselves and what we possess in our character, most of us would just run away or curl up and die.

When Job faced his problems, the loss of his wealth, children and his livestock and boils all over his body, he sat scraping his skin while sitting in piles of garbage and ashes. His wife, after seeing all of the things that had happened, did not even try to console him. She abruptly said this in Job 2, “9 Are you still trying to maintain your integrity? Curse God and die.”

A lot of us would just give up and let the vultures and other animals feed on us as we slowly died. Or, we would look to others for help knowing that they could not help us. That would happen if we looked to ourselves for the strength to go on and for the courage to stand up and fight. 

In Proverbs 25, the author writes these words, “19 Putting confidence in an unreliable person in times of trouble is like chewing with a broken tooth or walking on a lame foot.”

Relying on someone else who is equally frail and unable to help is truly like “chewing with a broken tooth or walking on a lame foot.” Our friends who are very dear to us cannot really do that much for us. Do not get me wrong. I appreciate their words of encouragement and their empathy. It is most welcome. Just talking with them does help as we voice our feelings and thoughts.

When I share my feelings and thoughts, I am not looking for a solution. I am just expressing what I am feeling and thinking. No one can give me a solution. All real solutions can only come from God. God can speak those words through someone, but the mere words of a man or woman cannot give us the direction we need. It is only God’s direction and plans for us that will get us through our difficulties. 

You notice that I am not relying even on myself. When I go through a horrible walk through the valley of darkness, I seek the Lord and His way. In Proverbs 3, the author, once again, tells us about relying on ourselves and our own knowledge and understanding, “5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”

When you consider the wisdom of Proverbs, you see that you cannot depend on yourself or rely on the help of others. It just will not work. Neither will help you in your time of need. You have to rely on someone bigger and greater than yourself. That means you have to rely on Him and Him only.

In his epistle to Titus, Paul writes, “7 And you yourself must be an example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect the integrity and seriousness of your teaching. 8 Teach the truth so that your teaching can’t be criticized. Then those who oppose us will be ashamed and have nothing bad to say about us.”

As Christians, we must set an example of integrity and seriousness in all that we do. These character traits do not just simply appear. They come from God as He works in our lives. As these traits are nurtured and cultivated, we are to become the example for others. By not relying on our own understanding and seeking His will in our life, we develop our character. As we persevere through life’s problems, we see that our character is revealed not only to us but also to those of the world.

In John 15, Jesus puts this into a context that the disciples could easily understand. He tells them, “5 Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing. 6 Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be burned. 7 But if you remain in me and my words remain in you, you may ask for anything you want, and it will be granted! 8 When you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples. This brings great glory to my Father.”

Unless we have Jesus in our lives, we are not able to produce the fruit that God wants us to produce. We become barren and devoid of the fruits of the spirit. When we become useless, there is nothing left for us. The barren, cutoff vines that are useless are gathered, piled and burned. 

By realizing our character traits come from God and using them in accordance to His will, we are able to produce much fruit, be examples to others in times of trouble and trial and, most importantly, bring great glory to our Father. We may lack the strength to even go on or to fight the good fight, but remember the words of Jesus, “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me.”

When we trust in God and in our savior, Christ Jesus, we know that when times do get rough, our character will be revealed to the world and they will see the glory of the Father reflected in our life as we persevere and continue to, as Paul counseled Timothy in his first epistle to the young man of faith, “12 Fight the good fight for the true faith. Hold tightly to the eternal life to which God has called you, which you have declared so well before many witnesses.”

When we face problems of varying severity that will invariable come up, our true character will be revealed and will be the example to the world that God and His son, Jesus, are working in our lives daily. We will soon discover that we can, through the power and love of our Heavenly Father, stand firm in His grace.

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.